Please !

I was thinking about a topic to write something for sometime. In fact, I wrote something, but a bit hesitant to publish it because I am afraid it may hurt someone. For someone, it may be difficult to see things through my point of view. One person perceived to be a not so good one has a bit of a task ahead to prove otherwise. For anyone, it is easy to make assumptions on anyone, which most of the time is not true. Who wants to know the truth, unless and until it is going to affect one personally?

People try to be nice sometimes, even thought they don’t want to be, because the society and situation they are in force them. This is like a religious person’s deed, doing nice things for the fear of punishment. His religious belief motivates him to be good. Most of us like to be not very good, at least when we can get away with it. Usually people relate the good and bad to their religious belief and to some of the society’s unwritten golden rule book. Good and bad, and right and wrong varies individually. I find myself a failure when I can’t prove myself worthy of something I truly deserve, in normal course. In my last unpublished writing, I am trying to tell a friend that trying to do everything perfect is not good. It can be categorized as a psychotic illness. It can be irritating to your colleagues and your boss at the same time. Trying to be a perfectionist at work and you never finish your work in time or out of time. I know that many perfectionists achieved great things in their lives, but in some cases like yours, when you blame yourself when things go wrong, when you are too hard on yourself , it changes in to a kind of mental disorder. Perfectionism in family life can be the worst thing to have. It never works that way. Flexibility and adjustments is much more important than being perfect. The most important problem here is that you want the others to be perfect as well. That is where the things go wrong really bad.

Right then! It’s been a lot of blah blah blah .. .... I hope I have said things in a mild, mellow tone. Hoping to see some changes, however subtle it is. Love you.

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